When It Rains, It Pours, and when it doesn't...

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Before I get into any juicy details about what I've been up to, I have to share this with you... Yesterday I treated myself to a one hour full-body massage. OMG! Now I've had massages before - many, in fact - but yesterday was the BEST massage I've ever had! Holy cow! This woman started with me on my back, and she began at my head, worked her way down to my feet, flipped me over, and then worked her way back up to my head. It was FANTASTIC! She even massaged my ears! LOL All for only $45, which just amazes me, because the last massage I had cost me more than twice that, and while it was a really good massage, this one had it beat hands down. After the massage I found out that this woman is actually a massage therapist instructor - let me tell you, I'm so impressed that I'm making a monthly appointment with her whether I can afford it or not, lol - and I've even made an appointment for me and my son when he comes home for the holidays. He's never had a massage, and I want him to experience a great one his first time. :) K, just wanted to share that. lol

Well, Hubby has been gone to Iraq for over two months now. Including the training he had to go through before he left, he's been gone for more like three and half months. It's been a tough time since he's been gone. I really miss him lots. Thankfully, we get to talk almost every day, which really helps, but its still hard. There is simply no replacement for the physical relationship, even if its just for hugs, and it really sucks that we still have 10 months of this to go. :( But I'm hanging in there, and trying to keep myself busy every day so I don't get depressed.

The hardest part of this time apart from Hubby is the lonliness for me. I spend so much time alone. Since I work alone, and I'm home alone, the only time I see anyone is when I push myself to go out on Ladies Night. But even that has its moments of lonliness. I've been out several times over the last couple months where I went alone. I just sit there in the bar by myself, drinking my drink, and hoping someone will at least ask me dance, or come sit and chat with me for a few minutes. It's almost worse than sitting home alone, because you see all these other people socializing and hanging out with their friends, while wishing you had someone to hang out with too. And the worst part for me is that I hate sitting alone and looking pathetic. I don't know where the heck all my normal party buddies have run off to. It's like they all dropped off the face of the planet. :(

There is good news, however. The last few months haven't been a total waste, as you will soon see. :) That's why I titled this post, "When it rains, it pours..."

We already know that I spend a good deal of time alone. That's the, "when it doesn't" part. When it's not raining, it like a severe drought around here, lol. It seems like these dry spells last for two weeks at at time, and then all the sudden, it starts raining like there's no tomorrow. We'll start with Biker Dude...

Biker Dude and I have been friends for a couple years now. And we've messed around a few times over the course of those couple years, but he and I have never had total-alone-time. Actually, he's kind of a hard one to figure out, because sometimes he's all about getting together, and other times it's like he has no interest what-so-ever. I don't understand it, but there it is. I really enjoy Biker Dude - the few times that we have been together, it was a good time. I like his kisses, A LOT, and I have to tell you, he's very talented with his tongue. ;)~ And when we do get together, there's a heated passion between us that rev's my motor big time.

Well, before I left on my vacation back in September, I started getting text messages from Biker Dude telling me that he really wanted to "hook up". We agreed that when I got back from vacation we'd make it a point to do just that. Then, while I was on vacation, he continued to send me text messages, telling me how horny he was for me, how much he'd been thinking about me, and how he couldn't wait for me to get back from vacation. These messages continued on until, on my way home from vacation, I'm sitting in a hotel room, and I start getting bombarded with messages from him telling me what he plans on doing to me when I get back. Mind you, I hadn't had sex in a few weeks, and the description of his intentions were really turning me on. Good thing I had my vibrator with me. ;)

I can honestly say that is the first time I've ever had "text message sex", LOL! He did a damn fine job of sharing his imagination with me. *grins* Of course, I was all about getting together with him in the real too, once I got home.

Even after the night in the hotel room, Biker Dude continued to send me messages over the weekend and into the following week. Finally, on Wednesday morning, he sends me a message telling me again that he's thinking about me, and that he has big plans for me that night. He knows where I am on Ladies night. So I sent him a message back, asking him if we should get a room that night, to which he agreed.

This all started around 10:30 in the morning, and from that moment on, my day was all about preparing for my time with Biker Dude that night. I immediately called my waxing girl and made an appointment for a brazillian waxing that afternoon. I also started getting my overnight bag together, with toys, lotions, and potions, prepping for the night. One of the things B.D. had requested was that I wear thigh hi's and heels for him that night, so of course, those went into the overnight bag along with everything else. Meanwhile, B.D. is sending more text messages about what he is going to do to me that night, making me slicker than a banana peel on a wet floor, hehe, and he tells me he hopes I have time for a nap that day, because he plans on keeping me up through the wee hours of the morning.

This is a big night for us. We've waited a long time for this, but in the back of my mind I couldn't help wondering just how long I was going to have him for the night, because he's got a wife and kids at home. Given that, I sent him a text asking him what time he'd have to be home that night, and he tells me the wife is out of town, so I have him all night long. This was just getting better and better. ;)

Finally it's time to head downtown for my waxing appointment, so I loaded up the car with my goodies and left the house. While I'm driving to my appointment, I start thinking to myself, I've got these really pretty thigh hi's and rockin' 5 inch heels I'm wearing for him tonight. Wouldn't it be nice if I had a sexy outfit to go with them?? So I head to the toy store and hit up their lingerie rack. I found the perfect outfit! Sheer black, open in the front, with a little leather trim holding it together right under my breasts, and leather collar to go around my neck. Sexy! Ironically enough, lol, he sends me another text while I'm there asking me if I have any edible body paint. Oh my! So I pick up some body paint and my outfit and get to my appointment.

After my appointment, I headed over the hotel we would be staying at that night, and got ready to go out to Ladies Night. I knew B.D. was working that evening, and when he works evenings, he usually doesn't show up for Ladies Night until around 11/11:30, so my plan was to go to Ladies Night, have a good time, and hook up with him when he got there. Well...

Around 11:45, B.D. still hadn't shown up. So I send him a text asking him if he was still coming. He says he is, but that he's bartending that night at another bar, and doesn't get off work until 1:00. Huh? Now why didn't he tell me that before??? But he assures me that he has every intention of meeting me at the hotel after he gets off work. Okay. As long as he's still showing up eventually, it's all good. I'll just continue on with my night, and head back to the hotel when the bar closes. That's only an hour away, so no biggie.

12:45 rolls around, and they kick us out of the bar, as is their usual custom, and I tell Lil' Pistol and Big Momma that I have plans, so I won't be going out to breakfast with them, and then I leave. ("Big Momma" is one I need to fill you in on yet, but another day, lol) With that, I head over to the hotel. Within in seconds of getting in the room, I get a text from B.D. telling me he's on his way and he'll be there in a few minutes. He was only down the street, so he really meant only a few minutes, lol.

After getting his text, I opened the door so he could just walk in when he got there, and I ran into the bathroom, freshened up, put on my new outfit - thigh hi's and heels included - and B.D. arrived before I even finished getting ready.

When I walked out of the bathroom, B.D. grabs me and kisses me like he hasn't "eaten" in a year - OMG! I LOVE A HUNGRY MAN! But keep in mind that I did some prepping for this night with him. I had toys laid out, covered with a towel, feathers, blindfolds, hand cuffs... don't forget the body paints... I was prepared! I also had my laptop with me for music, along with candles to be lit... so I pushed B.D. down on the bed, laid a yummy kiss on him, and told him to hold that thought, while I went over to the table to light a candle and get the music going.

Let me tell you, he was not going to be put off! As I'm bending over the table, purposely giving him a view of my ass under that sheer black nighty, he comes in from behind, gets on his knees and starts using his tongue, pulling me down on him. We actually had a bit of struggle with that one, because I was bound and determined to get that music and candles going, and he was bound and determined that I was going to sit on his face, lol - but I finally managed to get them going, and in the midst of the amazing things he was doing to me with that tongue of his, I eased myself down on him. Yum!

Eventually, we get off the floor and he takes me to the bed, where he lays me down on my back and continues to go down on me until I came like waterfall. B.D. is really good with his tongue, and he definitely makes a meal out of it. *she sighs with a delightful shiver* :)~ Then he helps me off the bed, and helps me out of my sexy nighty, stating that he never lets the sexy nighty stay on that long, but he couldn't help himself because I looked so hot in it, hehe - and, mind you, the thigh hi's and heels stayed on all night - then he turns me over, lays me down on the bed on my belly, pulls my hips up towards him so that I'm now on my knees, and he ever so slowly comes in from behind, hard as a rock. My G-spot was ripe and I had my second orgasm within seconds! He continued to take me from behind, until he reached his peak, and as he's doing so, he moaned like I've never heard him moan before. It was hot to hear him get off! ;)

In case you haven't figured it out yet, I tend to have an insatiable appetite when it comes to sex. I've been called a nympho more than once, lol - I can't help it. I don't know what it is, but so often I can go for hours and never get enough no matter how many times they get me off. I think that's part of it - since I can have multiple orgasms, I'm always ready for the next one. ;) But I always feel bad for the guys, because once they get off, it usually takes them some time to get hard again, and some guys can't go more than one round in a night. I can tend to wear a man out, and have been told so on several occasions, LOL!

On that note, it wasn't long before I was ready to go again, and I was in a 'no mercy' mood, lol, so after smokin' a ciggy, I walked over to B.D., who was sitting on the edge of the bed, and I got down on my knees, and began to use my tongue. *devilish grin* Lo and behold, he actually surprised me, because it didn't take long for him to "rise to the occasion", and before I knew it, we were going at it again. But this time, I laid him on his back, straddled him, and rode him slow and rhythmic like! This go-round lasted quite a while too, which was even better.

Do you know what I love? I love the feeling of a man's hands on my hips. Mmmmm.... that gets me all hot and bothered too. And the longer he hangs on to my hips, ridin' with me, the better it is. Just thought I'd share that. ;) So anyway... hehe ....

B.D. and I were at it for a total of about 2 hours that night. After getting myself off a third time riding him on top, and after getting him off for the second time that night, he tells me with an awed look on his face, that he's hasn't gotten off twice like that in such a short period of time, since he was in High School! I'm laughing, of course, but that really is a compliment. It feels good to know that he'll remember that night because of it.

B.D and I had a good time in those two hours we spent together. I have to be honest and tell you I was a little disappointed when he said he had to get home after only two hours together, because the way he made it sound, we'd be at it until the sun came up. But he had to get home to his kids, and it was already 3:30 in the morning, so I'm trying not to be too disappointed about it. I think the thing that dissappoints me the most is that the toys, paints, feathers, blindfolds and handcuffs never got touched. :( But at least he appreciated the outfit, and I'm going to hold on to the rest of it in hopes that he and I are not done having fun yet. ;)

Then, that same week, not two days later... stay tuned...