Sexscapades with a Capital "H.S." - part 2

At the moment I am sitting here wishing I hadn't gone out last night. It seems like more and more these days, Hubby and I have taken to going out on Friday nights, as well as my usual Wednesday night outings. Now I am sitting at work again with only two hours of sleep, and praying this day goes by fast so that I can go home and crawl back into bed. I really don't think I can take partying like this anymore - I'm tired as hell! lol Thank the Gods for coffee!! Back to telling you about a Ladies Night this week while I strive to stay awake...

So we arranged to meet with this second couple, whom we'll call "R&R". I was feeling very comfortable with these two, so we decided that we would meet with them during Ladies Night at the place we frequent. It just so happened that Hubby got the week off from work, so he would actually be able to go out with me to Ladies Night this week, without him having to worry about getting up at 4:30 in the morning to be at work the next day. It made for the perfect evening get-together. We were both excited about this particular meeting, because it was sounding like there was a definite possibility that things were going to work out with this one.

When we get to the bar that night, we spied R&R, recognizing them from their pictures. It was good to see that they represented themselves with current photos. We had done the same thing. (The previous couple we met did not do this. They were much older than their photos led us to believe.) We walk up to the table sharing hugs and hand shakes, since we had talked quite a bit over the two weeks prior to this meeting. They were every bit as fun in person as their conversations had been on-line. She's 35, and he's 39, so they were a little closer to our age, which also helped. (The previous couple was 10+ years older than us. Not that age is a problem, but at least be honest about it, right?) We partied with R&R for the next few hours, getting to know each other even better. It had been agreed upon prior to meeting, that we would get together in public first, and if we were all comfortable enough at the end of the night, then we would consider carrying the party forward. ;)

One thing I hadn't counted on that night was all the additional people we hang out with these days. All the guys usually work until midnight, so they hadn't been coming out much at all lately during the week. Don't you know, they all showed up that night, including Mr. Yummy, and of course, they all ended up sitting with Hubby and I and our "new friends", so it ended up being quite the party. I was worried that R&R would be a little overwhelmed, but they took things in stride.

There is also this cute woman that I had met several weeks ago, with a very yummy story as to how we actually met, but as usual, I'll have to share that one with you later, lol - She and I had been flirting with the idea of spending some alone time together. ;) Up until now though, all we had done was kiss - mostly she had been expressing her interest verbally, but was behaving a little stand-offish physically. Although she did seem to like to kiss me, because she has kissed me several times without my prompting it. It was like she couldn't decide if she was really ready to go through with it or not, lol. I'm not one to be pushy, so I have pretty much let her take the lead. Anyway, she doesn't always show up for ladies night either, but you've probably already figured out that she also showed up that night, and to my delight and amazement, she was ALL OVER ME!

If you can just imagine this whole scenario... Meeting R&R for the first time, with the possible intention of having sex with them that very night... trying to not lose my potential female playmate now that she's decided to "come out of the closet", LOL, while trying to continue to get to know this couple - and just to add more interest into the mix, there's at least 9 military guys thrown in for entertainment as they start getting drunk and crazy. The word "interesting" does not begin to cover it. But some how, between Hubby and I, we managed to balance it all out and everyone seemed to have a great time!

And here's something else that was interesting... Remember I mentioned meeting the first couple and it not working out so well? Get this... I have been going to this bar for, what? Almost two years now? Guess who showed up that night? Yeah - it was the man from that other couple! He walks in with some youngin' on his arm! Aside from the night we met him with the other woman, I have NEVER seen him in this bar. Of all the nights for him to decide to start taking his dates to this bar, he chooses the one night we're there with potential playmates! I couldn't believe it, and quite honestly, I found it a little unnerving - especially when I noticed him looking at me. Ugh. I tried my damnedest to avoid any eye contact with him - but if I even so much as glanced in his direction, because I had more friends sitting over by him and his date, he would be looking right at me. It made me uncomfortable. I was just thankful that Hubby happened to be there that night, and that we were surrounded by a crap load of friends. Otherwise I could see a very awkward situation arising out of that one. The worst of it is that now I'm going to have to keep an eye out for him when I go there alone, just so I can avoid him. He's really starting to give me the creeps. I'm really hoping this doesn't turn out to be some kind of stalker situation, but I also happen to be pretty good friends with the night manager and all the bartenders - so they will be my saving grace in the future, I'm sure, should I need some help. Anyway...

So here we all are, partying and having a great time, and in the midst of it all, I have this woman hanging all over me, kissing me, giving me lap dances, snuggling with me on the dance floor, even, lol - and then another girlfriend of mine walks in - one whom I have actually been in bed with, and now SHE'S kissing me and showing me all kinds of attention. Let me just tell you - I was feeling GREAT! Albeit a little flustered, wondering how the hell I was going to explain to these other two women that neither one of them was going to get to take me home that night! I'm just glad that this new couple already knew that I was bisexual, and they managed to handle all the "entertainment" pretty good! LOL I was really starting to feel a little like a Sex Goddess! YAY for ME!

Finally, the end of the night starts to near, and the bar announces that it's last call. Well, the whole purpose of the night was to feel out this new couple for an evening of fun. I was already comfortable enough with the idea, and so was Hubby, so we approached them about whether or not they were up for taking the party over to a near-by hotel. With big ol' smiles on their faces, they eagerly said, "Yes!", and we began to make arrangements for the rest of the night.

Now it was time to sneak away from the rest of this group, so we could move on to more adult fun. As far as the one woman was concerned, the one that was all over me all night, she was pretty much trashed, so I never had to explain anything to her. Our only concern was getting her home safely, because she was too drunk to drive. After a brief conversation, we figured out getting her home, and we started heading out of the bar to do just that.

Like things aren't exciting enough, we get outside of the bar, and it's mayhem - a ton of people milling around, still trying to party outside the bar, and we're trying to get to our vehicles. Next thing I know, I feel these arms wrap around me from behind, and it's Mr. Yummy. He leans in and whispers in my ear, "So what's going on? Where are you guys going?" I said, "We're trying to get this girl home safely." He says, "No, I mean, what are you and Hubby doing afterwards?" I said, "Why?" Still whispering in my ear, Mr. Yummy says, "Because you aren't going anywhere without me." I looked at him in a total state of disbelief! Are you kidding me?!?!?!? How many months have Mr. Yummy and I been playing this freakin' game? And he's going to choose THIS NIGHT to tell me that he finally wants to F* ME??? OMG! LOL

I truly could not believe what I was hearing! My brain was really scrambling on this one, because now I'm trying to figure out how the hell I'm supposed to tell Mr. Yummy "no" after all this time. I finally decided to tell him straight-up what was going on, because I couldn't see any other way to do it. So I tell him, "You see that couple we've been hanging out with?" He says, "Yeah - what about 'em?" I said, we're going to a hotel room to hang with them." He says, "I don't care. You're still not going anywhere without me." Well, shit! Now what do I do?!? LOL With that, I said, "No Baby, I don't think you understand... We are going to a swinger's party, and this couple is new to us, so I don't think it would be a good idea for you to join us tonight, because I don't know how they'd feel about it." Keeping in mind that Mr. Yummy is aware of our lifestyle, because this whole thing between us started based on his knowledge and curiosity about our lifestyle, Mr. Yummy says, "Again, YOU are not going anywhere without me!" And he starts kissing on my neck.

All I can say is, WOW! My panties are so wet at this point, because of all the attention I've already received so far that night, that if anyone were to touch me between my thighs, I would have probably cum on the spot! LOL But I still had to make a decision about the best way to handle this one, so I finally said, "I'll tell you what... I'll go over and talk to the couple, and if they are agreeable to you joining us, then you can come along. But if they say "no", you'll have to wait for another night." He agreed.

When I walked over to R&R, who were sitting patiently in their car waiting for the mayhem to settle down, I told them what was up. I started telling them about Mr. Yummy, and I said, "It's totally your call. If you aren't comfortable with him joining us, all you have to do is say the word." They looked at each other like they weren't quite sure how to take this latest development." I can't really blame them - I was as unsure as they were, lol, and it felt odd, to say the least, to be adding someone else in the mix when we hadn't even been with them yet - but I told them, "Mr. Yummy is a good guy. He's cool, but it's still your call." (It is worth noting that I had pointed Mr. Yummy out earlier that evening to Ms. R, telling her that I'd really like to f* him. She had laughed, agreeing that he was cute.) They didn't give me much of a reaction at this point. I finally said, "How about we go ahead and get this one girl home, and when we get back, you can let me know your decision." They agreed to that, so I went back to Mr. Yummy and let him know that it's still undecided. Then we took Cutie-pie home, leaving Hubby, Mr. Yummy, and the rest of the guys waiting for us in the bar parking lot.

In the midst of getting Cutie-pie home, we had to recruit the aid of woman #2, who was also all over me that night. We're going to call her "Lil' Pistol", cuz that's what she is - quite the hand-full, hehe So anyway, Lil' Pistol helps us to get Cutie-pie home, but Lil' Pistol has another woman with her, who we can't seem to get rid of, and whether we liked it or not, she was coming along for the ride.

We finally drop off Cutie-pie safe and sound. Lil' Pistol and I had taken her into the house, and on the way back down to the car, I told her what was going on, because she was asking me if we were going out to breakfast when we got back. In the process, I had to let her know that she wouldn't be able to "tag along" to the hotel, and she was understanding of the situation. Then we climbed into R&R's car, and headed back to the bar.

When we get back, Hubby and Mr. Yummy are still waiting for us, along with all the other guys. As I'm climbing out of the car, I asked R&R if they had decided about Mr. Yummy. Ms. R says that they have decided it's cool if he comes along, saying, "We'll see how things feel once we get to the hotel. If I end up feeling uncomfortable around him, we'll ask him to leave." What else could I say to that? I agreed and went to collect Hubby and Mr. Yummy.

Now the problems start to arise. This group that we hang out with loves to go to "after-parties". Most of the time the after-parties are at someone's house, and everyone was still hanging around when we got back, apparently waiting to find out who's house we were going to. The problem, of course, was that we weren't going to that kind of after-party, and obviously, they couldn't all come with us. It was a delicate situation, to say the least. How to tell these people that they couldn't come with us, without hurting feelings or pissing anyone off, and still managing to leave without anyone following us, while maintaining some kind of privacy about what was going on. Mr. Yummy didn't help this situation, AT ALL.

Of course, I can't seem to tell a story without a back-story, so here goes, lol... Mr. Yummy has been flirting with Lil' Pistol for a while now. She has been flirting back - she's also very good at the flirting game, but she doesn't "put out" because she's married, and they don't have an open marriage. She loves people to want her, and does a damn fine job at making sure they do. But the fact that she's married makes her the "forbidden fruit", which only drives these guys crazy, as they try to get her into bed anyway. She LOVES being the forbidden fruit, because she knows what it does to these guys, and it makes her feel powerful. I'm sure you are getting the picture here.

While we're standing in the parking lot trying to shake all these people, Mr. Yummy puts his arm around Lil' Pistol asking her if she's coming too. Thank goodness I had already had a talk with Lil' Pistol about what was going on, and she actually had to clue Mr. Yummy in on the fact that she wasn't invited, and that HE was extra cock in this scenario. Apparently he didn't quite get it, because he wanted his forbidden fruit too, and she had to explain it to him again. I was about ready to tell Mr. Yummy that he could kiss my ass, seriously. But I guess she finally got him to understand what was going on.

Then there's this chick that was with Lil' Pistol, who we couldn't seem to get rid of. She wants Mr. Yummy, but Mr. Yummy has no interest in her what-so-ever. Well, when she saw that Mr. Yummy was coming with us, she tried to talk Lil' Pistol into going with us too, so that she could tag along and hang all over Mr. Yummy. Did I mention DRAMA?! I hate this shit. She's leaning against our car, insisting that she and Lil' Pistol are coming with us. I finally looked at her and said, "You aren't invited." She was pissing me off and I just wanted to get on with the rest of my night. She looked at me in a total state of shock, but I think I got my point across. I felt bad about it afterwards, but what else could I do? Then I guess Lil' Pistol clued her in on what was going on too. Great! Now everybody knows our business. *sighs*

"Discrete" was supposed to be the word of the night, but these people were making it hard as hell. As I'm getting in our car to finally leave, the rest of the guys hanging around start walking up to me, asking me what was going on - where are we going - blah, blah, blah. At this point I had had it and told them, "We're going home." With that, I got into the car and we finally left.

In the past, we have managed to work things out in a much more quiet and reserved way than this. We're usually able to slip away without any issues, when other people who aren't involved are around. This is the first time we've had people practically demanding that they were coming with us. I suppose, in one respect, we should consider it a compliment that they want to continue hanging with us, but I have determined that any meet-ups in the future will definitely have to be made elsewhere, because this was just downright ridiculous.

Part 3 is just around the corner - stay tuned...

xoxo